Books

 

 THE VOICE OF THE HEART - BIBLE STUDY

How did we drift to a place where how God made us (feeling, needing, desiring, longing, hoping beings) would be the very part of us we attempt to overcome to mature in Christ? When did feelings become the enemy of spiritual maturity? No wonder for so many of us, "doing the Christian life" is an exercise in "doing." No wonder what we call being in relationship with God sometimes feels like eating shredded wheat with no milk. We're attempting to do relationships with our heads, cut off from the voice of our hearts. We end up living life alone, trapped in the prison of our own intellect, morality, and self-will. Despite being hard-wired for intimate relationships, our fear and shame keep us detached from our hearts and therefore detached from the ones we love. We learn to cope with life by utilizing any form of escape. This is not living -- this is barely surviving. The Voice of the Heart Bible Study is for anyone who wants more. Dig deeper into Scripture and your own story individually, in a group setting, or with a friend. No matter your situation, this study will guide you, one step at a time, on the journey home: home to the God who made you, home to the gifts He gave you, home to your family, home to your passion, and home to your calling.

Podcasts

 

Ever present: What is Emotion?

In this inaugural episode of the Ever Present Podcast, Duke sits down with Phil Herndon and Todd Wermers from Tin Man Ministries to answer the question, “What is Emotion?”


Ever Present: Does God have emotion?

Duke hosts Phil Herndon from Tin Man Ministries and Eden Project’s Nathan Wagnon, to discuss the emotional life of God, what that tells us about him, and what it tells us about ourselves.


ever present: the five a’s

Todd Wermers and Phil Herndon from Tin Man Ministries char with Duke about the 5 A’s of relational connection: Awareness, Admission, Attunement, Attachment, and Alignment, and the role and significance of each.


Ever Present: Anger

Phil Herndon and Todd Wermers from Tin Man Ministries join Duke to discuss Anger, what internal need it’s signaling to us and what happens when we don’t pay attention to the need.


Ever Present: Hurt

Duke chats with Phil Herndon and Todd Wermers from Tin Man Ministries about the emotion Hurt, what internal need it’s signaling us to and what happens when that need isn’t met, and what happens when it is.


ever present: lonely

One is the loneliest number, which is why there’s three on this podcast. Phil and Todd from Tin Man Ministries join Duke to unpack the emotion, lonely. There’s lots of lonely out there, so hopefully this episode will help!


ever present: sad

Duke, Phil and Todd talk Sad, the impairments it brings when the needs of sadness are not addressed and the beauty of the fits when they are.


ever present: shame

Shame is one of the most powerful emotions in the human experience and it drives so much of what we do. In this episode, Phil Herndon and Todd Wermers help us navigate what shame is and how it can push us to greater dependence on the spirit.


ever present: guilt

All of us to varying degrees have formed really elaborate strategies to hide from or avoid guilt. It is really difficult to admit guilt, but as we learn to appreciate the gift this emotion is, we will experience a freedom far too few of us have known.


Ever Present: Glad

As we close out this season of the Ever Present podcast with Tin Man gurus Phil Herndon and Todd Wermers, Duke chats with the guys about the unique emotion of gladness and the depth of meaning and relationship we can have when we learn to celebrate with others


WHAT WE REALLY WANT: WITH PHIL HERNDON

Welcome to Conversations About Connection with Greg Oliver. Join us as we explore Feelings: The Language of Connection and Attachment.

In Genesis 1 & 2, everything's going pretty great. In Revelation 22, God wipes those tears away and it's going to be great again. In between is where it gets dicey. With feelings, we have a language to talk about my life in the world in between Genesis 2 and Revelation 22.


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Emotions Are Not the Enem‪y‬

Some view emotions as something to be pushed down, but what if they're actually gifts - doorposts inviting us see what's behind those emotions?

Mike Donehey and his guest Jeff Schulte, counselor and author of The Voice of the Heart Bible study, explore what emotions tell us about ourselves and how understanding them on a deeper level can lead to better relationships and healthier lives.


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AN EPIDEMIC OF TIN MEN

Tin Man founder, Jeff Schulte, appears on the BetterMan Podcast discussing the growing epidemic of men who need to reconnect with their heart...in a world that doesn't work.

BetterMan is dedicated to helping foster a growing community of men who desire a better, more fulfilling life from their work, family, friends, marriages, and from their relationship with God.


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LEADING WITH HEALTH: WITH JEFF SCHULTE

In this episode, Tin Man's Jeff Schulte talk with Brad Watson and Duke Revard of the Saturate podcast, about leadership health and the codependency that exists in humans. Recorded in front of a live audience at the Soma Family Retreat, this conversation dives into parts of one of the interviewer's personal story, boundaries, and the path to emotional and spiritual health.


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IF I ONLY HAD A HEART: WITH JEFF SCHULTE

Despite being hardwired for intimate relationships, our fear and shame keep us detached from our own hearts and therefore detached from the ones we love. If you want your heart back, listen in to this compelling conversation between Tin Man’s Jeff Schulte & Rob Murray

Videos

 

Hard Wired For Connection

We were made to live and thrive in relationships. With a loving God and with others, we discover true relationships by telling the truth about our true self and realizing we are still loved. Love is expressed in our neediness and in meeting the needs of others.


Hitting “The Wall”

Tin Man founder, Jeff Schulte, and coach, Todd Wermers, join a webinar for pastors and leaders sponsored by ChristTogether.org. Schulte and Wermers share from their experiences as pastors who hit "the wall" and learned that they had to become inwardly aware to become outwardly focused. Maybe you, too, have hit the "wall" or you simply see it rapidly approaching. Schulte and Wermers will give you ideas and encouragement to find the hope that comes as you rediscover your heart and start forming healthy relationships.